“Losing the Atmosphere” by Vivian Conan (post 3): Missing memory gaps may make this memoir misleading
In post 1, Vivian spoke of having “two Mommies” in childhood, a love mommy and a hate mommy, but her mother usually seems benevolent in the rest of the memoir, so I wonder if Vivian might have done things in childhood to anger her mother, then lied about it, because she had a memory gap for doing it, which is why some people with multiple personality have had a reputation for being a liar in childhood. Search “lying.”
Neither her mother nor anyone else who has known Vivian is ever asked if they know Vivian to have done things she didn’t remember. [Maybe her mother thought there were "two Vivians."]
While there may be exceptional cases without memory gaps, this memoir may be misleading regarding the issue.
1. Vivian Conan. Losing the Atmosphere, a Memoir: A Baffling Disorder, a Search for Help, and the Therapist Who Understood. Afterword by Jeffery Smith, MD. New York, N.Y., Greenpoint Press, 2020.
Added next day: The author says she attended a writers' workshop for many years for help in writing this memoir, and that one of her alternate personalities is a fiction writer. Her therapist, with his patient's permission, should have interviewed people who knew her. Did he?
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