“Nonbinary” (post 5): Maybe the question is not “What am I?” but “Who and how many?”
“Is my identity a destination waiting at the end of a long journey?…Each time I made a new discovery about myself, I breathed a sigh of relief because it felt as though I was finally ‘there.’ Each time, without fail, I would get to a point where I was questioning my identity again.
“When we are asked, ‘What are you?,’ the only true answer is ‘This is what I am right now.’ Everything I’ve been through and all the identities I’ve embraced have been true to me…Right now, I am a writer who is polyamorous and a parent who is trans and nonbinary. Right now I can simultaneously feel good about the work I’ve done to discover and honor my authentic self and also acknowledge that I’m not nearly finished with the job of answering the question ‘What am I?’ ” ( 1, p. 98).
1. Micah Rajunov and Scott Duane (Editors). Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity. New York, Columbia University Press, 2019.
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